Since humans are social beings, they find it necessary to have friends. This isn’t just about having someone to socialize with—it goes deeper than that. Friends, depending on what kind of friends they are, have the ability to make life better and more satisfying. When times get rough and we need someone to lean on, our closest and truest friends are often there for us. We also like to share the best moments of our lives with our friends.
But what if you find out one day that one of your friends is sleeping with your mom or your dad? How would you feel about it? Would you forgive them and move on, or end your friendship? And what if you were the one who was sleeping with a friend’s parent? What would you do? Let’s take a look at the confessions of people who have slept with their friend’s parents and see what they have to say about it.
15. It’s not the same
All we have to say to this confessor is: of course you don’t look at her the same anymore. You slept with her freakin’ dad! Her freakin’ dad! You know who else slept with her dad? Her mom. So what does that make you? Someone who’s half-qualified to be her mom, which probably sounds weird to you because she’s your friend. Maybe, just maybe, you should have thought long and hard about it first before giving into temptation and screwing her dad. Wait no, let’s rephrase that—you shouldn’t have slept with her dad AT ALL.
We know there isn’t a written code somewhere that says you shouldn’t sleep with your friend’s parents, but if a person were really a true friend, they wouldn’t do something like that. Not only would it hurt her if she found out, it could also ruin the friendship and the friend’s relationship with her dad.
14. Virgin no more
We have a few questions for this girl. Why her friend’s dad, of all men? Wasn’t there anyone you were attracted to in school? Or wasn’t there anyone who was attracted to you? Since it’s your friend’s dad, it could almost count as your own! Weren’t you grossed out by that?
You know, when we really think about it, it’s not rare for people to be attracted to their friend’s dad. A lot of men get more attractive once they’re in their 40 and 50s. And since we’re human, it’s normal to have these urges. We guess the only things that are stopping us from humping everyone are our morals and the legality of the situation (speaking of which, the dad could get in serious trouble for this one). Still though, we’d expect girls to be very picky about whom they give their virginity to.
13. Cheating on girlfriend with friend’s mom
We think we know why this guy is still lonely, even though he has a girlfriend and despite having slept with another woman in the form of his friend’s mom: he is not happy with himself. When you’re not happy with yourself, it’s hard to be happy around someone else.
Sometimes, people think their partner is the problem, so they go around looking for someone to give them the love and affection they need. Unfortunately for them, they may find someone, but they don’t find that love that they’re looking for. And after reading this guy’s confession, we feel like he probably deserves being lonely. Not only did he cheat on his girlfriend, he cheated on her with a friend’s mom. He just took the word “douchebag” to a whole new level.
12. Should I tell my friend?
Um, to answer this person’s question, we think you should tell your friend before it’s too late. Or maybe it is already too late and saying something would just end up ruining your friendship plus your friend’s relationship with their mom. But hey, your friend deserves the truth. If the roles were reversed, would you rather your friend kept it a secret or revealed it to you?
See, this is just one of the many problems with sleeping with your friend’s parent. Deciding whether or not to tell your friend about this is one of the biggest dilemmas one could have in their life. Personally, if we were attracted to a friend’s parent, we’d jokingly ask our friend if they’d be okay with us screwing their parent. Who knows? They might actually say yes.
11. That guilty feeling
Sometimes, people who sleep with their friend’s parent don’t have to struggle deciding whether to tell them about it or not, but they do have a somewhat related problem: the struggle of hiding it from their friend. If you’re not someone who enjoys hiding things from people, then hiding this fact from your friend will definitely be very difficult and painful. Difficult because you always have to be cautious and careful not to get caught. Painful because you know you’re doing something that would hurt them.
But if hiding this fact from her friend is the worst thing about it, the physical aspect must be pretty good! Often, people find it hard to regret mistakes that ended well. And we guess for some people, it’s worth it if it is the best time in the sack they’ve ever had.
10. Not guilty at all
While there are those who feel bad and guilty about hooking up with a friend’s parent, there are also those who don’t feel the guilt at all. We guess for them, it feels too good to feel bad. This guy is one of those people and we can’t help but think of him as a douche. Like he said, he always had a thing for older women and seeing as there are millions of women older than him, we don’t get why he had to sleep with his friend’s mom. Maybe his urges were too strong to care about his friend’s feelings or maybe the mom was just too hot to pass. Some moms are undeniably really hot for their age and there are even those who are dating men 30 years younger than them.
9. Still seeing friend’s dad sometimes
This girl is in the same group as that guy who has a thing for older women. We don’t sense any guilt from this confession at all, but we could be wrong. However, judging by the fact that she’s seeing him sometimes, we can say that she’s enjoying this. We bet she is probably one of those people who likes the thrill of hiding a forbidden relationship. And we bet she really enjoyed sleeping with her friend’s dad while her friend was sleeping upstairs. What a nasty friend. Also, we can’t quite tell if this was the only time they did the deed or she just picked this one instance out of many. But we hope the friend catches them or finds out because she clearly deserves her friend’s wrath, although we’d feel bad for her friend for finding out about this horrible secret.
8. Accidentally in love
Here comes another problem with sleeping with a friend’s parent—falling in love with them. Out of over 7 billion people in the world, this girl unfortunately fell in love with her best friend’s dad. That’s a recipe for pain and disaster. Like we said, this could hurt the friend, ruin their friendship and affect the friend’s relationship with the parent. Plus, it’s not like a relationship would blossom just because she did the deed with him. It’s very complicated, and chances are, it’s never going to happen. We feel bad for her, but at the same time, we think she deserves all this pain. However, we have a feeling she only thinks she’s in love because she slept with him. Some girls are actually like that; they think they’re in love with the guy after being physically intimate with them.
7. Another unfortunate love affair
Just like the previous entry, this guy also claims to be in love with their friend’s parent. The difference is that he’s sure about his feelings. His situation is actually pretty understandable. It’s normal for people to fall in love with someone they spend a lot of time with; that’s why friends fall in love all the time. What we don’t understand here is why he does everything with the mom. Is the mom so cool that when they first met, he decided he wanted to hang out with her all the time? We’re actually very curious about their story. We want to know how they ended up doing everything together and if his friend actually knows about all this.
6. High school mistake
High school is one of the most exciting periods in a person’s life. This is the time when individuals are old enough to have a little freedom, but still young enough to do really wild stuff and not be judged for it. This is also the time where people make a lot of stupid mistakes, like this person here. We’re not sure if it was his raging hormones that made this possible or if it was a “high school party gone wrong” incident, but he likely feels like an idiot, as he should.
We don’t know how many years had passed since it happened, but we’re sure this guy has learned his lesson and won’t ever touch a friend’s parent again. Good luck to him (and the mom) on explaining this one to the family. And this guy should start preparing to kiss his friendship goodbye, too.
5. My friend would probably be mad
Of course she wouldn’t be your friend anymore! As you have probably already gathered, we don’t like it when someone hooks up with their friend’s parent, especially behind their back. For us, it shows a complete lack of respect. If you respect your friend and their parent, you would never cross that line no matter how attracted you are to the parent (and even if they made the first move). If we found out that one of our friends was secretly sleeping with our mom or dad, we might actually beat them up. Seriously, why do people do things they know they’re going to be in trouble for? Is it the thrill? The excitement? We hope karma bites them in the butt someday.
4. Most satisfying life experience
On one hand, we feel sorry for this person because sleeping with his friend’s mom is one of the most satisfying experiences of his life (what kind of messed up life does he have?). But on the other hand, we can’t help but think the mom is one of those goddesses we have on earth. Anyway, he obviously loved being with her. Seeing as it’s one of the most satisfying moments in his life, he probably doesn’t feel any remorse for doing it. We feel bad for the friend and unfortunately, all we can do is hope that this person gets what he deserves later in life—or maybe he already did. We also hope that someday he learns what a huge mistake this is.
3. Same-sex affair
This is probably the one that surprised us the most out of all the confessions on this list. You hear about heterosexual friend-parent affairs, but a same-sex affair is virtually unheard of. For us, their story is the most interesting and mysterious on the list. How did this even start? Did she just find out one day that she was attracted to women and then got attracted to her friend’s mom? Or, was her friend’s mom the one who initiated it? We’re also very curious to know if the mom was already into same-sex individuals before they did the act and if the child knew about it. Regardless, we still think this is wrong, not because they’re both women, but because sleeping with a friend’s parent isn’t really on the list of good things to do.
2. Dad is extra nice
Oh look, it’s another drawback of doing the deed with your friend’s parent! See, this is why we shouldn’t sleep with our friends’ parents. The disadvantages outweigh the advantages. Judging by this confession’s tone, it seems this girl is annoyed by the extra niceness of her friend’s dad. If someone was extra nice to us, especially after having slept with them, we’d probably be annoyed by it, too. We don’t know, there’s just something about people who are extra nice that bothers us. We feel like they’re only that nice because you’ve either given them something they want or they want something from you. And we’re not 100% sure about this, but the dad might have fallen in love with the friend. We hope not, because that would suck even more for everyone.
1. Drunken sex
This was obviously a big mistake and it seems the person who gave this confession thinks so, too. She drunkenly had sex with her best friend’s dad, which means that she, or even both of them, did not completely know what they were doing. You gotta admit that we tend to do things we wouldn’t normally do when we’re drunk. If they were both drunk, they were probably not conscious enough to realize what they were doing is wrong. And it seems the dad realizes that this was a mistake, too. Otherwise, he wouldn’t be hiding every time she came over. It has been eight years and these two still haven’t cleared their guilt. It wasn’t totally their fault but it could still have been avoided.