UPDATED: May 7th, 2020

In the world of reality television, the search for love is a common theme. This is the case for TLC's 90 Day Fiance, with a few unique twists. As the show’s website explained, “Using a unique 90-day fiance visa, the K-1 visa, the foreigners will travel to the U.S. to live with their overseas partners for the first time. The couples must marry before their visas expire in 90 days, or the visiting partner will have to return home.” Indeed, the premise seems shocking and almost impossible. But some couples do find love this way. Unfortunately, not everyone gets a happily ever after and many of the couples do break up.

The show has been on air since 2014 and it's no surprise that the couples featured on the series have grown somewhat of a fanbase. From keeping up with their social media accounts to wondering if the cast gets paid to be on the show, the world just loves 90 Day Fiance.

While following these couples' journey to the altar is extremely interesting and entertaining, people also often wonder if some moments on the show are staged for the cameras. In the spirit of getting to the bottom of what goes on behind the scenes of 90 Day Fiance, we've collected various facts in order to discover what is in fact real and what is fake or exaggerated.

23 Fake: The Tinder Scandal Involving Jay Smith

Jay Smith and Ashley Martson from 90 Day Fiance in an interview
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Jay Smith revealed during an interview with In Touch Weekly that the Tinder Incident that happened was staged for the cameras. He says, "it was just an act so it was easy to move [past it] because you know, we just act on the TV and after … that was it.”

22 Fake: The Show’s Portrayal Of Sasha

Sasha and Emily of 90 Day Fiance, Instagram post
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Sasha Larina’s wife, Emily, decided to set the record straight on Instagram saying, “For a while, I was disappointed that the world didn’t get to meet the Sasha I know. The man I know is always thinking about how he can be a better provider for his family.” She later added, “I’ll keep the real you to myself.”

21 Fake: Caesar Looking For Love

90 Day Fiance's Caesar looking frustrated
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As you can see, there is some suspicion that Mack’s end goal wasn’t to find true love at all. Instead, he was simply after building up his portfolio. As it turns out, Mack is an aspiring actor. And on a casting call website called Explore Talent, Mack used to have a profile page. According to Distractify, he had listed himself as an “actor and model based in Raleigh.”

20 Fake: Tom Brooks' Luxurious Lifestyle

90 Day Fiance's Tom Brooks during an interview
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It seems that Tom Brooks has gotten into the habit of stealing high-luxury lifestyle photos on social media and passing them as his own. Such photos included one of a Louis Vuitton box and Moet champagne being enjoyed poolside. Following his fake posts, Brooks was called out by some of the photos’ original owners. According to Soap Dirt, Brooks attempted to defend his actions by saying they were “paid promotions.”

19 Real: Only American Cast Members Get Paid

Lita and Eric of 90 Day Fiance pose for photo
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On the show, it is only the American cast members who get to receive a salary for their appearances, according to E! News. While speaking to Kate Casey, show executive producer Sharp also explained, “Someone who is an international, that would be illegal to pay someone. They would have to have a green card, which they do not.”

Related: 8 90 Day Fiance Couples We Thought Would Make It (7 Most Obvious Breakups)

18 Real: The Show Has Been Sued By Former Cast Members

Mark and Nikki of 90 Day Fiance promo shot
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Mark and Nikki Shoemaker decided to file a lawsuit against TLC’s parent company, Discovery Communications. According to a copy of the complaint available on Justia US Law, the couple alleged that they were “fraudulently misrepresented on the show.” They also claimed that the show’s producers provided “false verbal explanations and promises” and that “they only signed the release and agreements in reliance on such misrepresentations.” In the end, however, the lawsuit was dismissed.

17 Real: Women Are Asked To Sit A Certain Way To Enhance Physical Appeal

Anfisa Archipenchko of 90 Day Fiance during interview
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During sit-down individual interviews, it does sometimes appear that the women are under a great deal of discomfort. Taking to IG, 90 Day Fiance star Anfisa Arkhipchenko explained that they are asked to sit “with your legs elevated during interviews.” She also added, “Because producers make all women on the show sit like this if you haven't noticed.”

16 Fake: Corey Asking Evelin To Pick Him Up

Corey and Evelin of 90 Day Fiance talk while sitting on a bed
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In one episode of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, Corey Rathgeber flew to Ecuador to spend some time with fiancé Evelin Villegas in her own country. Based on the scenes, it seemed like Rathgeber was expecting Villegas to meet him at the airport upon arrival. However, Villegas told her fans on IG Live, “People complain about me not picking him up at the airport, [but] Corey is a great actor. That's all I'm going to say about that. He knew that I wasn't going to show up at the airport because he told me not to do it!”

15 Fake: Jorge’s Business

90 Day Fiance's Anfisa and Jorge eating Chick-fil-A
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At one point, Jorge Nava had claimed that he was a licensed marijuana dealer. However, it was the possession of this substance that later led to his arrest. According to a report from Radar Online, police had found as many as 293 pounds of “high-grade” substances in his car. He was then charged for transportation of the substance for sale, possession for sale, possession, and possession of related paraphernalia.

14 Real: In The Beginning, No Network Wanted The Show

Avery and Omar of 90 Day Fiance during an interview
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While speaking on the Reality Life podcast with Kate Casey, the show’s executive producer, Matt Sharp said that the initial pitch for the show involves following men who are looking to find love in other countries. However, the pitch fell flat with the networks and his team had to return to the drawing board. This was when they zeroed in on the idea of centering the storylines around the 90-day K-1 visa time period.

Related: Asuelu From 90 Day Fiancé: 15 Surprising Facts

13 Fake: Caesar Mack Being Single

90 Day Fiance's Caesar Mack during interview
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According to reports, it seems that Caesar Mack wasn’t even single when he supposedly became interested to start a life with Maria. According to Distractify, one user on Reddit claimed, “He is not being paid a TON. (Like $1,200 an episode I think he said?). But, they pay more for the 'Tell All,' pay for travel and stuff for a lot of shots and he wants to get into doing commercial work, so he took this as an ACTING job. His [girlfriend] was aware of that.”

12 Real: You Can’t Be Cast On The Show If Your Visa Is Not Yet Being Processed

90 Day Fiance's Syngin and Tania promo shot
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Before making an appearance on the show, an international cast member must be able to prove that their visa is already being processed at the very least. In short, the show is not responsible for securing the visa. They’re more interested to film the drama that goes on long after you got the visa and you’re thinking of pursuing a relationship with someone in the U.S.

11 Fake: Caesar And Maria’s Relationship

90 Day Fiance, Caesar and Maria
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The other bombshell surrounding this 90 Day Fiancé couple is the allegation that the two never really had a relationship from the beginning. One Reddit thread stated, “Their relationship was ending before the show even started- and she wasn’t [sic] interested in being on camera, which was the nail in the coffin.” The thread also added, “He says ALL the drama in their relationship was made up by producers. Not like, scripted toooo [sic] much but edited and there was a fair bit of acting on his end.”

10 Real: Cast And Crew Safety Is Taken Very Seriously

90 Day Fiance special, Rachel and Angela argument
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Alon Orstein, the Senior Vice President of Production and Development at TLC, told E!, “We are incredibly serious about making sure that crew, couples, their families, etc., are safe at all times. It is number one priority, whether we're in the US or abroad.” He also said that when things get tense, they do everything possible to reduce risk to cast and crew.

9 Real: Couples Typically Undergo A Strict Vetting Process

Anna and Mursel of 90 Day Fiance at airport
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According to reports, cast members undergo an extensive vetting process before being allowed to appear. Sharp said on the podcast, “We have a big background vetting process for all the couples. And we make case-by-case evaluations on couples as we look at them. We're trying to obviously do the right thing. We try to be open-minded...everyone's got some sort of history.” Well said. In fact, we’d like to point out that some cast members do have a criminal history. More on that later.

8 Fake: Chris Asking Annie For A Massage

David and Annie on 90 Day Fiance talk on a rooftop
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Perhaps, one of the most controversial scenes ever shown on 90 Day Fiancé involves Chris Thieneman asking his best friend’s fiancé, Annie Suwan, for a massage. Following the backlash, Thieneman’s wife, Nikki Cooper, took to social media with the message, “Yes, the awkward scene of Chris asking for a massage was SCRIPTED. The producer asked him to say it & Chris had to say it more than once because it didn’t come off as natural. We were fed our lines while sitting at the table, which is why no one reacted.”

7 Real: Some Cast Members Have A Criminal History

90 Day Fiance, Paul Staehle during interview
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At least two of the show’s cast members possess a criminal record. One of them is Paul Staehle who once confessed on the show, “Roughly 10 years ago I was accused of burning my own property. And I was incarcerated pending trial for 18 months until I took a plea agreement and got on probation.” Meanwhile, cast member Jon Walters had been arrested in the past due to a history of getting into fights.

Related: 15 Forgotten Facts About 90 Day Fiance's Most Popular Couples

6 Fake: Ashley And Jay’s Relationship

Jay and Ashley Smith of 90 Day Fiance pose for photo
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One of the most prominent storylines during the show’s sixth season involves a cheating scandal between Ashley Martson and Jay Smith. At one point, Martson took to her IG and posted, “We have been asked (and agreed for some time) to fake our relationship by not posting anything that makes us appear that we are together. Personally, I thought this show was just for entertainment & that’s what we were told. Since the show has ended I never confirmed the status of our relationship due to the contract.”

5 Real: Some Scenes Are Staged

Luis Mendez of 90 Day Fiance during interview
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As it turns out, there are staged scenes on this show. And sometimes, its storyline can seriously make you cringe. In season five, the show made Luis Mendez almost appear like a villain. And when someone pointed this out on IG, Mendez responded, “It’s fake more than real.” So yes, don’t believe everything you see on this program.

4 Fake: Jorge And Chantel’s Names

90 Day Fiance's Anfisa and Jorge pose for photo
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The suspicion among viewers began when they noticed that Jorge and Chantel would be called a different name by some of their relatives. Apparently, Jorge’s real is Andrew while Chantel’s is SeaAir, according to one Reddit thread. Nobody really knows why they chose to use fake names. But some suspect that both wanted to guard their privacy.