Selena Gomez has surely kissed several frogs, but she is yet to find her prince charming. Is there a specific reason why Selena has difficulty finding love? What exactly did she reveal about ever getting married? The first person who was famously linked to Selena was Nick Jonas in 2008, but that romance was very short-lived. Selena later revealed that Nick was charming but admitted that they were both very young at the time.

Selena then dated Taylor Lautner in 2009, but she later confirmed their split to Seventeen, saying, "We would go out to lunch and dinner, but I knew he had paparazzi following him, and I had paparazzi following me. People were getting a little crazy about us, but he is so sweet. Taylor has made me so happy. I didn't know I could be that happy." There was also the on and off relationship with Justin Bieber, which ended very badly. Here is everything about the actress' love life and the real reason why Selena Gomez won't get married.

Is Selena Gomez In A Relationship Right Now?

Selena and Zedd briefly dated in early 2015 despite claims that the whole thing was a publicity stunt. She also dated Charlie Puth, Samuel Krost, Orlando Bloom, and The Weeknd. Selena has also been linked to other people, and in early March 2022, she was rumored to be dating Zen Matoshi. The actress was among the lucky ones who got to see Dua Lipa's sold-out show at Madison Square Garden, and she was there with Zen.

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Soon after their appearance, social media was on fire with their pictures, and it further flooded with fan speculations around a potential romance. However, a close source that spoke to E! News explicitly described them as just friends, saying, "They are friends. He works in the tech space and has been helping advise Selena." A different source also told People, "Selena and Zen just met through a mutual acquaintance. They're not dating."

Even though it was reported that Selena and Zen are just friends, fans bombarded him on social media with questions about dating Selena, something that the actress herself previously said made dating really hard.

Selena Gomez Doesn't Want To Date Anymore

Before Zen, Selena and Chris Evans' fans were suspicious that both stars were dating after the actor began following her on Instagram in October 2021. Shippers then started photoshopping photos of Selena and Chris to make it look like they attended the same studio at the same time and had a date at a restaurant. The rumor was fueled even further when Chris posted a clip of himself playing the piano to his Instagram stories and captioned the video, "rainy day activities." According to fans, there was a mysterious reflection of a brunette person in the left corner of the video, allegedly Selena.

That kind of obsession makes it hard for Selena to date anyone publicly. The truth is that the actress hasn't dated anyone for a while. In fact, in 2021, a source told Entertainment Tonight that dating wasn't on Selena's priorities. She prefers to focus on her mental health and career.

Selena Gomez Thinks Most Of Her relationships Were 'Cursed'

Selena has been pretty open about other reasons she has not been looking for love. In June 2021, the actress told Vogue Australia, "I think most of my experiences in relationships have been cursed. I've been way too young to be exposed to certain things when I was in relationships." Then she added, "I guess I needed to find what was that word for me because I felt so less than in past relationships and never really felt equal." Selena has also been open about the emotional damage she went through in previous relationships, which made her take a break from love.

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Selena Gomez Is In No Rush To Settle Down With Someone

As far as an actual wedding is concerned, Selena also said she doesn't even see herself walking down the aisle. When she appeared on Nikkie de Jager's YouTube channel to promote her makeup line Rare Beauty, that conversation took place. During that chat, while discussing with the makeup artist, Selena joked about marriage, saying, "He'll be doing my makeup for my wedding, which is never gonna happen. It's just funny because I release things that say I want a boyfriend and stuff... I didn't really mean it, though. Guys are a lot of work."

In an interview with Verified in 2020, Selena also revealed that she struggles with love because she has confidence issues, primarily because of her health condition. She also said, "Some days, when I wake up, I'm annoyed, and I'm like 'I'm gonna be alone forever.'" On another occasion, while speaking to Vogue in April 2021, Selena also said that she wasn't looking for love because she couldn't meet someone and know if they liked her for her, but she was willing to start over.

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